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What is People Pleasing and Where Does It Come From? | EMDR Vancouver & Canada
People pleasing is one of those things that looks like a personality trait from the outside but feels like a survival strategy from the inside. It's the person who always says yes. The one who anticipates what everyone else needs before they're asked. The person who finds it almost physically impossible to disappoint someone, even when it comes at a significant personal cost. It's the quiet, exhausting habit of managing everyone else's emotions while ignoring your own. From t
Megan Yerxa
Jul 264 min read


The Difference Between a Psychologist and a Counsellor in BC | EMDR Therapist Vancouver & Across Canada
If you've been searching for therapy in Vancouver, EMDR therapy in BC, or mental health support anywhere in British Columbia, you've probably come across a confusing range of professional titles: Psychologist Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) Therapist Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC) Social Worker Psychotherapist Understanding the differences can feel overwhelming, especially when you're already trying to find the right support. The good news is that for most people se
Megan Yerxa
Jul 154 min read


Childhood Emotional Neglect: The Trauma That Has No Name | EMDR Vancouver
There is a kind of trauma that is incredibly difficult to recognize because it is defined by what didn't happen, rather than by what did. There was no single traumatic event. No obvious abuse. By most external measures, your childhood may have looked perfectly normal. And yet, something feels missing. You may struggle to identify your emotions, feel disconnected from yourself, experience chronic emptiness, or wonder why relationships and life never feel as fulfilling as they
Megan Yerxa
Jul 154 min read
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